Sunday, October 07, 2007
Does being in a relationship make one live life fuller?
Having just returned from Zhenfai's surprise birthday celebration organised by Meifang, I realised how much I am missing. Having someone to plan a surprise, book the venue, order the food, organising the friends and decorating the place. It really is very sweet of her.
But what we are seeing is on the surface level, where things are all rosy and nice. Ever taken a step to look deeper? The problems, quarrels or differences will come up someday. Nevertheless, I believe how you solve such matters is important in strengthening the relationship.
Being involved in a relationship surely does makes one feel happier each day, for you know there's someone who cares for you like you care for him/her. At least it makes everyday something to look forward to. Be it a date, a call or even a simple message.
Then again, too many people in long term relationships are going through a rough patch recently. And it definitely has adverse effects. The broken heart feeling, the I-cannot-stop-thinking-about-him/her-feeling, yes it sucks.
So it a relationship worth the sacrifice afterall?
Editor's note: I've tried hard, taken up driving, guitar, diving.. but sometimes, it ain't that simple.
思念是一种病 {9:19 pm}
