Saturday, November 10, 2007
Was thinking of writing stuff related to the heart. But decided not to with the help of better judgement because:
1) it's not interesting
2) it's boring (is it the same?)
3) i prefer keeping it to myself
Anyway, was reading social psychology when there's this section of a topic on love. So apparently, Sternberg came up with his Triangular Model of Love. There are 3 basics, 3 2nd degree and 1 combined love.
Basics: Liking (intimacy alone), Empty Love (commitment alone), Infatuation (passion alone)
2nd: Romantic (intimacy + passion), Fatuous (passion + commitment), Companionate ( commitment + intimacy)
Combined: Consummate (intimacy + passion + commitment)
It is such a hot topic but yet no one can really define what love is. It is also said that loving is different from liking, and not just very strong liking. So what exactly is like and love?
思念是一种病 {1:37 am}